Assessment

Take the 15 minute assessment below to discover what your next step as a disciple might be!

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Three Relationships Self-Assessment Form

Name(Required)

First Last

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Church Name

City, State

Read each statement below and rate yourself. 1 = I’m not doing well. 5 = I’m doing excellent!
Try to be honest. If you don't understand a statement, that is likely low for you.

1. I set aside time to read my Bible on a consistent basis.(Required)

2. I regularly set aside time to spend in prayer.(Required)

3. I frequently spend time reflecting on the nature and attributes of God.(Required)

4. I have a weekly time of pausing from work and busyness.(Required)

5. I regularly meet with a small group of believers to grow in my faith.(Required)

6. I have 2-3 people who I trust to speak truthfully to me.(Required)

7. I regularly set aside an amount of money to give to the church.(Required)

8. I daily use my words or actions to lift someone else up.(Required)

9. I actively learn about the needs of others around the world.(Required)

10. I actively seek out ways to help others around me.(Required)

11. I participate in community events, organizations or activities.(Required)

12. I know how to clearly communicate the gospel to someone.(Required)

13. I understand the full story of the Bible and how I fit into God’s story.(Required)

14. Conversations with God overflow throughout my day.(Required)

15. In response to God’s love, I live a life of obedience to Him.(Required)

16. I understand that God has authority over my successes and failures.(Required)

17. I regularly gather together with other believers to worship God.(Required)

18. I respond with humility to words of correction.(Required)

19. I understand my spiritual gifts and know how to use them.(Required)

20. I make time to be “present’ for those who might be going through something.(Required)

21. When someone is being wronged, I respond with a similar response as Jesus.(Required)

22. As I move through my community, I pray for God’s guidance to share the love of Jesus with others.(Required)

23. I invite neighbors into my home and/or share a meal with them, on a regular basis.(Required)

24. I am equipped to share specific scriptures to communicate the love of Jesus.(Required)

25. I see and understand that Jesus is the point and purpose of the Bible.(Required)

26. My times of prayer are more than just making requests to God.(Required)

27. I prioritize honoring God over honoring others in my life.(Required)

28. I set aside times for solitude and reflection with God.(Required)

29. I know at least 10 people in my church by name.(Required)

30. I actively seek out feedback for areas of my life where I struggle.(Required)

31. I actively look for ways to help others in the church.(Required)

32. I regularly look for ways to be kind to others.(Required)

33. I pay attention to what is going on in the lives of people in my community, country and world.(Required)

34. I am patient and kind with people who annoy me or interrupt my plans.(Required)

35. I know the names and circumstances of at least 3-5 of my neighbors.(Required)

36. I can share my personal story of how God has impacted my life.(Required)

37. I allow the Bible to direct my actions, thoughts and decisions.(Required)

38. I spend time focusing on praying for others regularly.(Required)

39. I make time to tell God how great He is.(Required)

40. I have a set time to end my day’s work and stop my tasks.(Required)

41. I spend time with people from church outside the church building.(Required)

42. I share open and honest feedback with 2-3 people in my life.(Required)

43. I regularly participate in a volunteering role at the church.(Required)

44. I listen in order to understand, rather than to respond.(Required)

45. I know of and support at least one organization that is doing God’s work in another country.(Required)

46. I will anonymously and randomly give a gift to someone throughout the year.(Required)

47. I have friends who are not yet a part of the church community.(Required)

48. I live in a way that shows others the love of Jesus.(Required)

49. I commit passages of scripture to memory.(Required)

50. Before I make decisions in my life, I pray about them.(Required)

51. My response to others reflects the grace that God has shown to me.(Required)

52. I trust God with the outcomes of my endeavors and allow Him to be in control.(Required)

53. I look to greet and welcome new people at church.(Required)

54. I have consistent “check-ins” with others to obtain guidance for my personal growth.(Required)

55. I treat all of my resources as if they belong to God and act like His steward of them.(Required)

56. I pay attention to what brings joy to the people around me.(Required)

57. I regularly set aside time to pray for God’s work in a specific geographical area outside my normal living area.(Required)

58. I seek out those who are alone and make time to be present.(Required)

59. I have at least 2-3 neighbors who know me and what is going on in my life.(Required)

60. I have shared the gospel with at least one person in the last 3-6 months.(Required)